Moving to a new city is exciting… but let’s be real—it’s also terrifying. When I packed up my life and left everything familiar behind, I didn’t know a single soul in my new city. It was just me, my cat, and a whole lot of nerves.
But here’s the thing: I did it. And you can too.
Whether you’re moving for a fresh start, a new job, or just a change of scenery, the fear is real—but so is the growth. Here’s how I faced my move head-on and some tips to help you conquer yours.
1. Acknowledge That It’s Okay to Be Scared
Moving to a new place where you don’t know anyone? Yeah, it’s intimidating. But that fear? It means you’re pushing yourself out of your comfort zone—and that’s where the magic happens.
2. Hire the Right Movers (Seriously, Don’t Skip This)
One of the smartest decisions I made was hiring movers. I used Roadway Moving, and they were a lifesaver. They handled everything with care (even my cat’s scratching post!) and took the stress out of moving day.
Pro Tip: Do your research. Look up reviews, ask for recommendations, and get a binding estimate so there are no surprise fees later. A trustworthy moving company makes all the difference.
3. Moving With a Pet? Prepare Ahead
Moving with a cat adds another layer of stress—for both of you. I made sure to:
- Keep her carrier open and accessible weeks before the move so she got used to it.
- Set up a safe, quiet space in the new place with her litter box, food, and favorite blanket.
- Sometimes pet need a little “happy pill” from the vet to handle the car or plane ride. This was my first time having my cat on an airplane and she was super chill on the flight.
4. Say Yes to Everything (At First)
When you’re in a new city, every invitation is an opportunity. Say yes to the awkward coffee dates, the random happy hours, the community events—anything that gets you out there and meeting people. Even when it feels scary. Especially when it feels scary.
5. Find Familiar Routines in New Places
Find a go-to coffee shop, a walking route, or a grocery store you love. Creating small routines in your new city helps it feel like home a lot faster.
6. Give Yourself Time
You don’t have to have it all figured out right away. Some days will feel amazing, and some will feel lonely. That’s part of the process. Be patient with yourself.
Final Thoughts
Moving to a new city alone—with a pet, no less—is not for the faint of heart. But it’s also one of the most empowering things I’ve ever done. You grow, you learn, and eventually… you thrive. If you’re thinking about making a move, I’m here to tell you: you’ve got this.
